Zoë Foster Blake reveals how a failed relationship turned her ‘against women’

Zoë Foster Blake reveals how being ‘betrayed’ by an ex-boyfriend turned her ‘against women’ in her twenties – as she discusses her ‘rock-solid’ marriage to Hamish Blake

Zoë Foster Blake has revealed that a failed relationship in her twenties turned her ‘against women’.

On Tuesday, the journalist and beauty guru, 40, told the How To Life podcast that her view of other women changed when an ex-boyfriend ‘betrayed’ her.

‘I had a relationship in my twenties where it turned me against women,’ the Go-To skincare founder explained.

Betrayed: Journalist and beauty guru Zoë Foster Blake revealed on Tuesday that her view of other women changed when an ex-boyfriend ‘betrayed’ her in her twenties

‘It’s such a strange and emotionally juvenile way to go against your competitor rather that the person who betrayed you and made that decision,’ she added.

‘And this bulls**t idea that women are inherently competitive with each other and we’re all scratching and fighting over the one man is ridiculous.’

Zoë said she ‘had to learn to love the sisterhood’ again as she recovered from her heartbreak.

‘I think that’s something that happens probably a bit early in your life, and as you get older you understand the nuances of how that [cheating] would happen, and you probably turn most of your anger toward your partner,’ she added.

Evolving: 'It's such a strange and emotionally juvenile way to go against your competitor rather that the person who betrayed you and made that decision,' she told the How To Life podcast

Evolving: ‘It’s such a strange and emotionally juvenile way to go against your competitor rather that the person who betrayed you and made that decision,’ she told the How To Life podcast

Elsewhere in the chat, Zoë revealed that she and her husband, comedian Hamish Blake, have ‘very open discussions’ about infidelity. 

The author, who recently wrote about cheating in her book Clean Slate, said: ‘We are rock solid and we don’t have the threat of infidelity and I really believe that. But it’s always an interesting conversation.

‘I have the capacity to write about things like this because my life is very blessed and happy and I’m not actually living it.’

'We don't have the threat of infidelity': Elsewhere in the interview, Zoë revealed that she and her husband, comedian Hamish Blake (right), have a 'rock-solid' marriage

‘We don’t have the threat of infidelity’: Elsewhere in the interview, Zoë revealed that she and her husband, comedian Hamish Blake (right), have a ‘rock-solid’ marriage

Zoë and Hamish married in a private ceremony in Wolgan Valley, New South Wales, in 2012. 

The couple welcomed their first child, son Sonny Donald, in 2014, followed by a daughter, Rudy Hazel, in 2017.

Zoë previously dated former NRL star Craig Wing.

Family: Zoë and Hamish married in 2012. The couple welcomed their first child, son Sonny Donald, in 2014, followed by a daughter, Rudy Hazel, in 2017 (all pictured)

Family: Zoë and Hamish married in 2012. The couple welcomed their first child, son Sonny Donald, in 2014, followed by a daughter, Rudy Hazel, in 2017 (all pictured)