Influencer Ashy Bines lashes out at trolls who shamed her for leaving four-month-old daughter with her husband as she took interstate trip to party with her pals: ‘I love my baby but also love doing fun things just for me’
Ashy Bines has clapped back after she was criticised for taking a weekend girls trip with her friends and leaving her baby daughter home.
The fitness influencer, 33, left four-month-old Tala and her son Taj, six, with husband Steven Evans while she went interstate with friends.
In an Instagram post on Saturday, Ashy defended her decision and said it was a difficult one to make.
Ashy Bines (pictured) has clapped back after she was criticised for taking a weekend girls trip with her friends and leaving her baby daughter home. In an Instagram post on Saturday, Ashy defended her decision and said it was a difficult one to make
‘Moments before I balled my eyes out at the airport leaving my baby nearly 48 hours,’ she captioned a series of photos of her with Tala.
‘I’ve got this! Feels like an arm is missing but dad is sending me loads of videos and nailing solo dad life lol! So lucky to have my family.
‘I know judgment has come flying my way leaving her for 48 hours BUT hear me out. I LOVE my baby but also LOVE my friends. I LOVE my baby but also love travel and variety. I LOVE my baby but also love doing fun things just for me.
‘I know judgment has come flying my way leaving her for 48 hours BUT hear me out. I LOVE my baby but also LOVE my friends. I LOVE my baby but also love travel and variety. I LOVE my baby but also love doing fun things just for me’ she wrote
‘I LOVE my baby and fully trust and love Steve having his bonding time with the kids and can enjoy myself knowing they are happy and safe’.
She went on: ‘One DM (direct message) this morning (read): “How COULD you leave your baby with Steve for that long that’s so wrong”.
‘I think it’s wrong for other women to think it’s wrong, send such a message and also why would I have children with someone I don’t trust? Wrong to leave my kids with their dad? If a dad went away for 48 hours he’s never even questioned?’
The fitness influencer, 33, left four-month-old Tala and her son Taj, six, with husband Steven Evans while she went interstate with friends. Steve, Taj and Tala are pictured
‘I LOVE my baby and fully trust and love Steve having his bonding time with the kids and can enjoy myself knowing they are happy and safe’ she wrote
Ashy continued: ‘Mummas let’s be kind to one another and not project or send hate to another mum who’s doing her thing. Might not feel right for you and that’s okay, we all do exactly what feels good for us.
‘This message didn’t upset me at all, not in the slightest, but did inspire me to write this caption to have a conversation or create awareness for mummas, and remind other mums its okay for you to have a life and enjoy other parts of your life, not just mum life, OR just need a break’.
Ashy was hit with the trolling messages after posting a series of images and videos to Instagram Stories showing her partying with her friends during the trip.
Ashy was hit with the trolling messages after posting a series of images and videos to Instagram Stories showing her partying with her friends during the trip (pictured)
‘I think it’s wrong for other women to think it’s wrong, send such a message and also why would I have children with someone I don’t trust? Wrong to leave my kids with their dad? If a dad went away for 48 hours he’s never even questioned?’ she said
‘Mummas let’s be kind to one another and not project or send hate to another mum who’s doing her thing. Might not feel right for you and that’s okay, we all do exactly what feels good for us’ she added
Earlier this year, fans were thrilled after Ashy finally revealed the name and the gender of her daughter a few days after birth after keeping mum on both throughout her pregnancy.
The little one, who is the little sister of the couple’s eldest son Taj, was born on June 19th at 1pm weighing 4.11kg and measuring 53cm.
’24 hours with you. We couldn’t be more in love if we tried,’ she captioned the post.
Ashy, who married Steve in 2014, is known for sharing her health and fitness tips with thousands on social media.
Ashy, who married Steve in 2014, is known for sharing her health and fitness tips with thousands on social media